by Jawad Khattak | Oct 15, 2026 | Alzheimer's / Dementia Care, Home Care
The call comes on a Tuesday afternoon. A neighbor, or the hospital, or your mother sounding strange in a way you can't quite name. You're two thousand miles away and the next flight is tomorrow morning. Being caught off guard like this has less to do with...
by Jawad Khattak | Oct 15, 2026 | Alzheimer's / Dementia Care, Home Care
By four in the afternoon she's somebody else. Restless, asking the same question for the ninth time, putting her coat on, certain she needs to get home while she's standing in the middle of her own living room. By eight the next morning she's calm and...
by Jawad Khattak | Oct 14, 2026 | Alzheimer's / Dementia Care, Home Care
If you live a plane ride away, the holidays are usually the only time you see your parent properly. Phone calls are a poor instrument. Video calls are worse, because people point the camera at their face and nowhere else. So the visit does a lot of work, and most...
by Jawad Khattak | Oct 14, 2026 | Alzheimer's / Dementia Care, Home Care
You called three agencies and got three versions of the same answer. It depends. Somebody will need to come out and see. That's frustrating when you're trying to work out whether any of this is possible, and it sounds like a sales tactic. It usually isn't....
by Jawad Khattak | Oct 13, 2026 | Alzheimer's / Dementia Care, Home Care
You've had the conversation three times now. Each time it ends the same way. I'm fine. I don't need a stranger in my house. Stop fussing. And each time you drive home more worried than before. Here's the thing to understand first. Almost nobody is...